I am purchasing a resin from Germany on time pays. I sent the first payment via Goods and Services so I would have purchase protection. The seller then asked if I could send the second payment via Friends and Family so she wouldn't have to pay fees. Because the resin is quite pricey and while the seller has been good with communication and has positive feedback, I am not comfortable at all paying via Friends and Family. I would rather opt to include the fees in the Goods and Services payment- am I allowed to do this? I get the impression that the seller does not sell often, would it be a good idea to politely explain that Goods and Services is highly preferred and to factor the fees in the asking price next time they sell? For some reason I am just paranoid they will cancel the sale and since I have been looking for this resin for many years, I'd hate to lose out on it!